And no, not that kind of lost, the real kind.
I’m actually very good at getting lost, but until two days ago, I’d never thought about how it happens. Much thinking later, I have a theory!
“Oh, Meeks, you clever thing. Do tell!”
Ok, as you ask so nicely, here goes.
I think our brains are conditioned to see a straight path as the right – i.e. correct – path. When we’re paying attention, we automatically over-ride this conditioning in order to get to our destination. But what happens if we’re distracted and come to a fork in the road?
I think that when we’re ‘on auto’ – i.e. not paying attention to our surroundings – we are liable to keep following the path that seems more straight.
Of course, there’s also the problem of habit. Have you ever set out in the car for destination ‘X’ and suddenly realised that you were actually heading to destination ‘Y’ because ‘Y’ is where you go every day? -mumble- I have -mumble-
Anyway, the reason I needed to work out how I, and others, get lost is that I needed a realistic way for one of my characters to get into trouble after becoming lost. Me being me, I wasn’t happy with just an insight, I had to go make a map, didn’t I?
The blue path is the ‘correct’ path. The pinky-purple path is still safe, but the red path is the one that leads to disaster:

You can see the two points where the character went haring off on the wrong path. Both appear to be kind of ‘straight’.
Unfortunately all of this is pure speculation. If anyone has any real info. I would really love to hear it. I might even change the map. π
cheers,
Meeks
June 27th, 2022 at 1:56 pm
This was interesting about getting lost and the cognitive connections with it
βοΈπ
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June 27th, 2022 at 7:25 pm
Thanks for visiting, and commenting, Prior. Biology and psychology are two of my passions, so I love working out the ‘why’ of things, even when writing about aliens. π
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June 28th, 2022 at 2:04 am
βοΈππ
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June 19th, 2022 at 8:51 am
As others have said, I think it’s a matter of Attention … and map-reading! π
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June 19th, 2022 at 1:25 pm
lol – true. I’ve got the young Healer trudging along, chewing p’ik seeds in the middle of the night. Definitely a bit distracted. π
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June 20th, 2022 at 9:37 am
Dastardly! π
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June 20th, 2022 at 12:40 pm
Exactly! π
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June 19th, 2022 at 2:37 am
Lost in the jungle, I think I read that folks will lean toward their dominant hand when walking. Or maybe it was the opposite hand… Oh, well, I recall a time when I had to collect walnuts in a sack and a band of turkeys stumbled down the ravine where the trees had grown in a natural grove. And the creek there which hosted a bunch of tadpoles in pools. But the best part were the blue belly lizards that scampered across the boulder patches. And the day’s lazy feel, and the big fuzzy bumble bees, and the smell of astringent walnut and loam and grass. The thought of living off the land and how fine it would be to lounge on a hilltop in the baking sun, red through my eyelids.
Hmm, where was I? Damn, I think I’m lost.
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June 19th, 2022 at 1:27 pm
-giggles- I love walnuts. Where is this idyll of yours? I want to go there too. π
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June 18th, 2022 at 10:08 am
I will add to your speculation. I think you’re mostly right, Andrea. I notice that when I’m walking along a trail or driving on a road and I’m busy chatting or spacing out, I’ll continue along the main (larger, better traveled) path or road, even if it curves or turns. I wouldn’t automatically turn off a main street onto a side street or less traveled trail, even if it was straight. That takes focus and a choice.
The key, I think, is to have the correct path somehow less visible (plant growth, rockslide, a sharp corner around a boulder, recent rain and water on the path, a tree down…. Or perhaps the correct path is simply less traveled so that the incorrect way appears like the main path.
If you need the characters to go the wrong way twice, you might include both options – one simply appears less well-traveled and the other is obscured.
Hope that helps, my friend. π
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June 19th, 2022 at 1:35 pm
It helps a lot, actually. Thank you. π Distraction is definitely an important part of the mix. The character is munching p’ik seeds and more focused on its stomach than on the path. Once it realises that it’s taken the wrong turn, it tries to retrace its steps but now everything looks the same and it veers off the wrong way again.
This is one of those times when a plot point is /necessary/ so making it plausible is vital.
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June 20th, 2022 at 1:50 am
I love this stuff. So any time. So glad you’re writing!
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June 20th, 2022 at 8:39 am
Thank you, and me too!
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June 17th, 2022 at 12:23 am
So this is present day? Dropping a pin won’t help? Wearing Air Tags? Hmm…
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June 17th, 2022 at 9:27 am
lol – yes! I still get lost, the only difference is that since the pandemic I don’t hardly drive at all so I don’t end up in strange places. π
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June 17th, 2022 at 10:57 am
Hehee
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June 16th, 2022 at 7:30 pm
HI Meeks, I am always getting lost. I blame it on having no sense of direction at all. I’ve never know N, E, W & S. I like your map and your theory.
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June 16th, 2022 at 9:47 pm
lol – High Five, Robbie! I think I have the same problem. And thank you. π
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June 16th, 2022 at 5:24 pm
Haring off on the π wrong path is kind of my thing…
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June 16th, 2022 at 9:48 pm
-grin- I once drove the Offspring to school…on a Saturday. We were busy chatting about something… mea culpa. π
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